In a recent LinkedIn post, Shannon Smith, J.D., M.S. delves into the psychological barriers that prevent individuals from taking action, arguing that the common desire to wait until one feels “ready” is often a self-imposed trap that reinforces avoidance behaviors.
Smith, J.D., M.S. highlights how the brain, through repetition, wires itself around practiced behaviors. This means that consistently delaying important conversations, launches, or personal leaps can train the nervous system to perceive hesitation as safety.
“So when you keep delaying the conversation, the launch, the boundary, the ask, the leap, your nervous system starts to treat hesitation like safety.”
This learned response, according to Smith, J.D., M.S., makes staying in one’s comfort zone feel increasingly normal over time. The danger, as Smith, J.D., M.S. points out, is mistaking this reinforcement of avoidance for strategic patience.
The Brain’s Protective Mechanisms
Shannon Smith, J.D., M.S. explains that avoidance, while sometimes appearing responsible or thoughtful, often stems from the brain’s fundamental drive to protect itself from perceived risks such as uncertainty, rejection, failure, or loss of control. The amygdala, the brain’s threat detection center, prioritizes perceived safety over the importance of a goal.
“Your amygdala doesn’t care how important the dream is. It cares whether the move feels risky.”
This protective instinct can manifest as internal whispers urging caution: “Not yet,” “Wait a little longer,” or “Get more proof.” Smith, J.D., M.S. observes that this cycle can lead to seasons passing without progress, leaving desired outcomes just out of reach, waiting on the other side of brave decisions.
The Power of Action and Rewiring
Counterintuitively, Smith, J.D., M.S. argues that taking action, even before feeling fully ready or certain, is the key to rewiring these avoidance patterns. Action provides the brain with evidence that moving forward is safe enough, interrupting the threat loop and engaging the prefrontal cortex with new information.
This process builds self-trust by demonstrating that fear does not have to dictate outcomes. Change, according to Shannon Smith, J.D., M.S., occurs not when fear disappears, but when individuals act despite it.
Practical Steps to Break the Cycle
To help individuals overcome the “waiting for ready” trap, Shannon Smith, J.D., M.S. proposes three actionable steps:
- Take One Real Action in 24 Hours: Sending a message, booking a meeting, posting an idea, or making an ask, even a small one, weakens avoidance and teaches the brain that movement is survivable.
- Name the Exact Fear: Writing down specific perceived negative outcomes helps the brain process fear more effectively than vague anxieties, thereby lowering neural noise.
- Repeat One Brave Behavior This Week: Engaging in a single challenging behavior, such as a difficult conversation or a visible move, more than once helps to solidify new patterns.
Smith, J.D., M.S. emphasizes that consistent practice of movement, courage, truth-telling, and choosing desired outcomes is how rewiring happens. While fear will always present a strong case, Smith, J.D., M.S. encourages individuals to give hope an equal vote and choose action now.
“Your future is being shaped by what you keep practicing now.”
The post concludes with a call to practice movement and courage, reminding readers that their future is a direct result of their current practices.
📝 About This Content
This article is based on insights shared by Shannon Smith, J.D., M.S. on LinkedIn.
📅 Originally posted on August 1, 2026 | View original post on LinkedIn โ