In a recent LinkedIn post, Liz Bradford explores the critical disconnect between stated values and actual daily actions, emphasizing the importance of aligning one’s calendar with deeply held principles. Bradford highlights a common struggle where individuals identify core values like ‘family,’ ‘growth,’ or ‘health’ but fail to reflect these in their time commitments.
She opens by referencing the ancient philosophical adage, “The unexamined life is not worth living,” but quickly pivots to a more pragmatic, actionable interpretation: “the unlived life is not worth examining.” This sets the stage for her core argument that true alignment comes not just from introspection, but from observable behavior, particularly as dictated by one’s schedule.
“We know our values. Family. Growth. Health. Impact. We examine them endlessly. Workshops. Journals. Vision boards. Then we check our calendars.”
Bradford points out the stark reality many face, describing it as a “brutal” gap. She illustrates this by contrasting time spent in unfulfilling meetings with time spent with loved ones, or the pursuit of ‘growth’ while remaining in a comfort zone, and valuing ‘health’ while consistently working through lunch.
The Calendar as a Values Audit
Bradford introduces a simple yet powerful framework used in her ‘Build Better’ masterclass to expose this misalignment. The exercise involves three key steps:
- Listing top 3 stated values.
- Auditing the previous week’s calendar hour by hour.
- Calculating where energy *actually* went, not just where intentions were directed.
She stresses the importance of focusing on energy expenditure, as it provides a more honest reflection of priorities than mere intentions or aspirations.
The Uncomfortable Truths Revealed
The results of this exercise, as shared by participants who followed up with Bradford, often reveal uncomfortable truths. She recounts:
“One person discovered they spent >60% of their week on tasks they’d delegate if they truly valued ‘strategic thinking.'”
Another participant realized their deeply stated value of ‘family first’ accounted for a mere 2% of their waking hours. Bradford frames these discoveries not as failures, but as necessary steps towards genuine self-awareness and change.
“Not pretty. But necessary.”
According to Bradford, the quote about the examined vs. unlived life is not about choosing between reflection and action. Instead, she argues, it highlights the crucial space between knowing what you value and actually doing what aligns with those values. This is where true alignment is forged.
Actionable Insights from Energy Investment
Bradford concludes by emphasizing that our calendars are honest indicators of our priorities. The time and energy we invest daily serve as our most authentic ‘values statement.’
“Your calendar doesn’t lie. Your energy investment is your real values statement.”
She encourages readers to consider this a ‘reality check,’ prompting them to re-evaluate their own schedules to ensure they are living in accordance with their stated values.
📝 About This Content
This article is based on insights shared by Liz Bradford on LinkedIn.
📅 Originally posted on March 26, 2026 | View original post on LinkedIn →