In a recent LinkedIn post, Simon Sinek delves into a concerning trend among young men: an apparent reluctance to engage in healthy risk-taking. He highlights Scott Galloway’s perspective, suggesting that the essential ‘good risks’—those that foster genuine growth—are being avoided. Sinek posits that this avoidance is hindering the development of crucial life skills and resilience.
As Simon Sinek notes, the issue isn’t about recklessness, but rather a decline in what he terms ‘social risks.’ These are the everyday challenges that build confidence and character. He points to actions like applying for jobs one might not be qualified for, initiating new connections, and persevering after facing rejection.
“In today’s world, young people aren’t engaging in social risks like applying for jobs they might not get, reaching out to new people, hearing ‘no’ and trying again.”
The Erosion of Resilience Through Rejection
Simon Sinek argues that the very process of facing and overcoming rejection is a vital component in building self-assurance. Historically, this cycle of asking, being turned down, and asking again served as a fundamental workout for an individual’s confidence. Without these experiences, Sinek suggests, the capacity for resilience weakens.
He elaborates on this point, stating:
“Confidence used to be built, in part, through rejection: asking, getting turned down, and asking again.”
In Sinek’s view, this ‘muscle’ of confidence only strengthens when individuals intentionally push themselves beyond their established comfort zones. This active engagement with potential failure, he contends, is not just beneficial but necessary for personal and professional development.
The Necessity of Risk for Meaningful Success
Simon Sinek emphasizes that significant achievements are rarely born from a place of absolute certainty or comfort. Instead, they often emerge from a willingness to embrace uncertainty and the possibility of failure. He links the pursuit of substantial ‘yeses’ directly to the courage required to face numerous ‘no’s.’
According to Sinek, the path to meaningful affirmation is paved with the willingness to risk disappointment:
“Because the only way to get a meaningful ‘yes’ is to risk a lot of ‘no’s.’”
This perspective underscores Sinek’s broader philosophy on leadership and personal growth, where embracing challenges and understanding the value of setbacks are paramount. He encourages a reevaluation of how young men are navigating social and professional landscapes, urging a return to the valuable lessons learned through calculated risks and the inevitable rejections that often accompany them.
Sinek concludes by directing readers to the full discussion on the ‘A Bit of Optimism’ podcast, indicating that this is a complex issue with further nuances explored in the audio format.
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This article is based on insights shared by Simon Sinek on LinkedIn.
📅 Originally posted on February 24, 2026 | View original post on LinkedIn →