The Instinct to Hold On: Leanne Bridges on Why Leaders Struggle to Delegate

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Leanne Bridges

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A team you can rely on to deliver what they commit to. No chasing, no firefighting. I help UK MDs & owners of 20-200 person firms build it. Worked with 150+ businesses

In a recent LinkedIn post, Leanne Bridges explores a common yet often unaddressed leadership challenge: the deep-seated instinct to micromanage, even when trust in a team exists. Bridges uses the case of a medical director (MD) who, despite professing trust in his team, found himself constantly overseeing and approving decisions that his team should have been empowered to make.

The core of the issue, as Bridges unpicks it, wasn’t a lack of faith in his employees, but a more personal fear rooted in accountability. The MD’s rationale was that if something went wrong, he would be the one facing the consequences. This led him to retain control, believing that his direct oversight was the safest path.

“If he handed something over and it went wrong, he was the one picking up the pieces. If he kept an eye on all of it, he’d make sure it was fine.”

The Root of Control: Fear of Failure

Bridges highlights that this behavior wasn’t born from a conscious decision made in the present, but rather an ingrained instinct. This instinct likely stemmed from an earlier phase of the business when the leader’s direct involvement was indeed crucial for safety and success. However, as the business grew, this once-effective strategy became a bottleneck.

When ‘Just Let Go’ Isn’t Enough

The post challenges the simplistic advice often given to such leaders: “Just let go.” According to Bridges, this advice is frequently ineffective because the behavior is not a matter of poor decision-making but a deeply embedded reflex. Attempting to delegate more, while seemingly logical, fails to address the underlying instinct.

“You can’t talk yourself out of a reflex. He’d tried. He’d been attacking it by trying to delegate more. But the thing driving it was instinct, so the answer sat somewhere he hadn’t thought to look.”

Bridges emphasizes that the leader had tried to overcome this by consciously attempting to delegate more, but this approach did not tackle the root cause – the instinctual belief that one’s own hands are the safest. This led to the leader carrying a burden that was too large for any one person, while simultaneously hindering the work that would actually propel the business forward.

Finding the Real Solution: Addressing Instinct

The breakthrough, as described by Bridges, came when the focus shifted from simply *trying* to delegate to addressing the underlying instinctual driver. This involved a deeper exploration of why the leader felt compelled to maintain control, rather than just the act of handing over tasks.

“That’s what we actually worked on.”

By working on this deeper, instinctual level, a significant shift occurred. Bridges recounts the outcome: a few weeks later, a tender was priced and signed off without the MD’s direct involvement. He learned about it afterwards, signifying a successful transfer of responsibility and a validation of his team’s capabilities.

The Outcome: Empowered Teams and Growth

The result of addressing the leader’s ingrained instinct was profound. The MD discovered that his team was capable of handling much more than he had previously allowed. This wasn’t just about offloading tasks; it was about enabling the team to operate at a higher capacity, which in turn freed up the leader to focus on strategic growth initiatives.

“His team could handle far more than he’d expected. He’d just never found a way to get them working like this before.”

Leanne Bridges’s analysis offers a valuable perspective for leaders who find themselves stuck in a cycle of over-involvement, suggesting that true delegation requires understanding and addressing the instinctual fears that often drive micromanagement, ultimately paving the way for both team empowerment and business growth.

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This article is based on insights shared by Leanne Bridges on LinkedIn.

📅 Originally posted on June 28, 2026 | View original post on LinkedIn →