Shift From ‘Crushing’ Objections to Understanding Them, Urges Sales Expert Leslie Venetz

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Leslie Venetz

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Sales Trainer | Outbound Sales Campaign Builder | Int’l SKO & Keynote Speaker | USA Today Bestselling Author | B2B Sales Strategist for Teams That Outbound | #EarnTheRight | 2026 Goals: Read More Books & Pet More Dogs

In a recent LinkedIn post, Leslie Venetz discusses a fundamental shift in sales strategy, arguing that the traditional approach of “crushing” objections can inadvertently lead to lost deals. Venetz highlights how outdated sales methodologies, which encouraged reps to debate prospects and prove them wrong, are still prevalent and detrimental.

According to Venetz, this combative mindset, where objections are viewed as battles to be won, causes prospects to disengage early in the conversation. She recalls a time when “rebuttals” were the standard response taught to sales teams, a practice she now finds unpalatable.

“The instinct to crush objections trains reps to hear resistance as a battle to win. Prospects feel that reflex within the first two sentences of the response, and they disengage from the conversation before the rep finishes their rebuttal.”

Venetz shares her own career evolution, noting that it took considerable effort to discover that asking more insightful questions after an objection was more effective than defending the solution. This realization formed the basis of her current “3C Mindset,” which frames objections not as roadblocks, but as valuable indicators of what truly matters to a buyer.

The Power of Gratitude in Sales Conversations

A key recommendation from Venetz is for sales professionals to cultivate a sense of gratitude when faced with an objection. While acknowledging this is a significant mental adjustment, she asserts that this mindset shift is crucial for altering behaviors that result in lost business.

As Venetz explains, when a representative’s initial response to an objection is genuine gratitude, the ingrained reflex to defend is replaced by a deliberate effort to understand. This transforms the dynamic of the sales interaction from adversarial to collaborative.

“When your rep hears an objection and their first response is a sincere thank you, the reflex to defend gets replaced with the discipline to understand.”

She emphasizes that this simple change can fundamentally alter how sales teams approach customer resistance, leading to more meaningful interactions and ultimately, more closed deals.

Tactical Steps for a Consultative Approach

To implement this shift, Venetz suggests a straightforward tactical starting point for sales teams: a single-sentence rewrite. She advises sales reps to replace their standard phrases following an acknowledgment like “I hear that concern” with a question designed to uncover the root cause of the objection.

Shifting from Overcoming to Understanding

The core of this strategy, according to Venetz, is to move away from the goal of “overcoming” objections and instead focus on “continuing the conversation” with curiosity. By asking probing questions, sales professionals can more quickly identify the genuine issues at play.

“Stop trying to overcome an objection. Start trying to continue the convo with a curious question. You will get to the real issue faster and your win rates will follow.”

Venetz concludes by posing a question to her audience, seeking practical insights from their own experiences: “What question has worked best for your team when a buyer pushes back on price?” This engagement highlights her commitment to collaborative learning within the sales community.

📝 About This Content

This article is based on insights shared by Leslie Venetz on LinkedIn.

📅 Originally posted on September 3, 2026 | View original post on LinkedIn →